Coronado Beach, CA

Coronado Beach, CA

Friday, April 08, 2011

Baptism

Last Saturday, exactly 18 months after receiving his referral, we made the trip to northern Illinois to Chris' hometown, in order to have little J baptized.  Much of the family was able to come and share the day with us and since it was so close to J's birthday, we also snuck in an early birthday party combined with the baptism celebration.  The boy was. in. heaven. We had the baptism after the 5pm Mass that day, which normally only takes an hour, but that day we were de-light-ed to have a mission priest visit and say the Mass (read: sarcasm).  I know that is awful to say, but it was quite a day to have that kind of luck because, well, the homily was over 30 minutes long!!  You read that right.  3-0 minutes.  Half an hour.  And our little guy was a little angel throughout.  It probably didn't hurt that he had only taken a 45 minute nap that morning, so when we gave him his binky at the beginning of Mass, he was content to pretty much just chill out in our arms the whole time.  (But did he go to sleep?...nooo, he was determined to stay awake.)  I'm going to brag though, because we had strangers come up to us after Mass and tell us just how good he had been during Mass.  He actually acted better than some of the adults that were there when the homily starting turning into a marathon!

So anyway, after Mass, the family went up to the front of the church and J was baptized.  Chris' brother and sister-in-law are his godparents and the whole ceremony was amazing!  Every time Fr. Mike talked to J, he actually talked to him, as though they were having a conversation.  And J would stare at Fr. Mike, just like he understood every single word he was being told.  It was really very touching.  When it came time for the actual baptism, Chris and I were both thinking that J was not going to do well, considering he doesn't like to lay on his back in the tub and have water poured over his head (I found that out the hard way.  Tried it once.  Never again.)  But our child let his Daddy hold him over the baptismal font with his parents and godparents all touching him, one finger in his mouth, and allowed the priest to pour water over his head three times without letting out so much as a peep of displeasure.  (We thankfully have that on video, but for privacy purposes since the priest said his entire name, I am not going to post it here.)  I am very glad that my sister got that on video.  I just wish we had the priest's final blessing over our family of three on video too!  Now I'm just being greedy, huh?

A few pictures of the baptism and after:



Watching Fr. Mike 

Couldn't have asked for a more perfect picture!

J and his godparents

We then went back to Chris' brother's house (where some people had been waiting for us for an hour!) and had the double celebration with family and friends.  Thanks to my MIL's friend who catered the event; she did an amazing job!!!

The cupcake tower.  And those little blue and brown boxes had J's absolute favorite candy inside them: M&M's.  We didn't let him know that until much later or else he probably would have tried to get all of them out of the tower!

He loved being the center of attention when we were singing "Happy Birthday."
And he blew both candles out on the first try all by himself.

 Can you have any more adorable cuteness in one photo?!?!

The tractor Grandma and Grandpa T got him for his birthday.
He would not allow anyone to touch the gas pedal to make it go, but he is now warming up to it just a little bit.  He'll be racing around in the thing before the summer's over, I just know it!

Everyone was dog tired the following day after a late night.

(I swear, we didn't pose her!)

He was out like a light not two minutes after we left town on Sunday.  Worn out from all the fun times!

We had a great time seeing family and celebrating last weekend and cannot thank his godparents enough for being willing to be such a central part of his life.  You are strong, amazing people and J is fortunate to have you as his aunt and uncle!  Love you guys!!

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Friday, March 18, 2011

Florida Trip - Part 2

The second part of our trip.  (Again, mostly pictures and video.)

J absolutely loved riding in his friend J's wagon...you've a birthday coming up soon, son!

Dining...al fresco!


"Cheers!"

The water fountain at the zoo was a huge hit with this outdoor- and water-loving child...



...if you can't tell...he. is. soaked.




Annie and Rita


the troublemakers: green J looks a little nervous/guilty, red J looks like he's about to do something to get in trouble!


*hugs* "thanks for a great day at the zoo, J!"

great picture of the manatee; friend J was entranced by it

Daddy and J watching the moray eel



feeding the giraffes.  Watch out for his tongue, Daddy!

family photo

riding high on Daddy

I just LOVE this next set of pictures of my two favorite guys.  Looking at these pictures makes my heart want to burst with love for this father and his son.





Bath time!  These boys are only 11 days apart in age.


Puzzle time.

Finally worn out

This picture reminds a whole lot of another one just like it taken 9 1/2 months ago...(from this post, look towards the bottom of the page.)

We had a great time on our vacation!  Too bad it couldn't have lasted a bit longer, but we had to get back to work so we can go on more vacations!!  Where to next??

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Florida trip - Part I

As promised, here are pictures and video of our trip.  This is only the first part of it, as I wanted to get at least some of them posted now...there are a lot!  And that is your forewarning, folks!!

L and N had these neat plasma cars that J just loved riding around on...maybe there'll be one in his future??

lunchtime

cleaning the beach


sharing

hmmm...do I have to share the truck?

yeah, I guess I will.  cool truck, huh, J?

the beach bums..Craig and Chris  :)





It was sooo windy, it looks like J is going to get blown over.  But he loved picking up the stones from the bottom and throwing them back into the water.

At the St. Louis Cardinals Spring Training game!

What a great place to watch the game...front row from Daddy's lap!

I love my Mommy!  Let me give you a kiss!

Our seasoned traveler.  
We took his car seat which helped him be more comfortable and he was able to sleep on the drive between friend's houses.  This is how he sleeps in his crib, too; both hands behind his head with his elbows out to the side.  Looks so relaxed!

This is a sign we saw at the rest stop; not something normally seen in the Midwest:

(and don't worry, mom, we did NOT see any snakes in the area at all)

Friday, March 11, 2011

Family (of 3!!) Vacation

Last week, after 9 months home, we took the plunge and got back on a plane with little J in tow...and boy, were we right, our child is a super-duper traveler!!!!!  We flew down to Florida, with one layover, to enjoy a little fun in the sun with some good friends.  The day we left, we had to get J up at 4 - yes, that was in the A.M., people! - to drive to the airport that is 45 minutes away (free parking there still, yippee!).  J stayed awake for the entire first flight except for maybe the last 10 minutes when he got a little cat nap.  We had a quick bite to eat at the Atlanta airport and then on to our final flight, where he again stayed up until we started our descent.  He then proceeded to sleep on my shoulder through landing, de-planing (is that even a word??), and going to pick up our checked bags (one of the two being J's carseat and are we ever so glad that we took his rather than renting one with the car!).  So that was it.  A combined nap of about 55 minutes...for. the. entire. day.  I don't know what the boy was running on, but mommy and daddy were on fumes by the time we got to bed that night!
The first part of the trip, we stayed with friends who have 2 1/2 year old twin boys and it was cute to see them all interact with each other.  And J had a great time playing with their toy grill set and all their cars.  Except the motorized ones; he completely freaked out whenever the gas pedal was pressed on those, even if he was nowhere near them!  Weird, especially with how much he likes cars, trains, buses, and, well, anything with wheels!!  We went to a children's beach the next day, although the wind was pretty strong and made it a tad chillier than I would have liked, but dang it!, I was in Florida for some sun and sand and, by God, I was sticking it out!  It really wasn't all that bad.  It's not like we got sandblasted due to the wind.  I have some video I'll get up over the weekend hopefully, where you can hear the wind blowing constantly and see the waves it was creating in this little inlet we were playing in.  The following day, we went to a St. Louis Cardinals Spring Training game and got to sit in the front row behind the batter just to the side of the dugout!!  Sweet seats!  Thanks, Aaron.  We all had a great time and were actually able to make it through the end of the game, even with three toddlers who weren't really paying attention to the ballgame.  My child pigged out and completely mooched off the snacks of the other two boys...of course, he didn't want the snacks Mommy brought!  On the way back home that night, Chris, J, and I stopped and had dinner, al fresca, right off the beach at a very yummy restaurant.  J was in a good mood the whole day and zonked out in the car on the remainder of the way home.  What a great day!
On Sunday, we drove about 4 hours to see our friends that we met while in Korea picking up our sons.  This was the first time we had seen them since returning to the States on the same flight.  I was so excited to see them again, rather than just talk over the phone.  J did great on the drive and slept about an hour or so.  Their son, J, was napping when we got there, so our J got the run of the playroom where there is a train table set up; he was in heaven!  But the most amazing thing that brought tears to my eyes and really touched my heart, was when their J got up from his nap.  When our J saw him, his face lit up and he squealed and smiled and ran over to him...of course, I wasn't expecting this, so I didn't have the camera ready.  Boo!!  I so wish I knew what J was thinking right then: does he remember the other J, or was he responding that way because they look more similar to each other than they do to us, their parents?  But we have other Korean friends here in town, and he doesn't respond in the same way to them.  How I wish I knew if maybe their foster families had gotten together in Korea, but how on earth would they still remember each other with how young they are??  Oh well, something I may never know.  But it did my heart good to see them together.  They are only 11 days apart in age, but physically are on opposite ends of the growth charts!  Wait until you see the pictures.  They seemed to interact very well after the initial getting-to-know-each-other phase.
On Monday, we went to the zoo and even though they weren't completely into all the animals yet, they actually did a lot better than we had anticipated.  Well worth the money.  Although I think my J's favorite thing was the water fountain area just inside the gates that he played in for about 20 minutes while the other J finished up his nap...and which earned him a souvenir beach towel and t-shirt, since I had only packed an extra pair of shorts for him!  If only I had known, I would have put him in a swim diaper and stripped him down...the boy was soaked!!  Good thing it was sunny and warm that afternoon.  We fed the giraffes, saw the manatees and big turtles swimming right up to the glass under water, watched the penguins diving, and pushed the stroller in (almost) straight lines.  (Of course, J didn't want to sit in the stroller and be pushed; he wanted to do the pushing!)  The one thing we were hoping to finally show J were the lions...but there were NO lions at this zoo.  Bummer!  Guess we'll have to go find them at another one sometime soon.
We flew home the next day and J was officially exhausted by then.  He stayed awake for the first leg of the trip, but fell asleep in Chris' arms before we even left the ground on our second flight.  Woke up by the time we landed and was happy to run around the lobby of the airport while Daddy went to get the car.  He was soooo ready to get out of the car by the time we finally made it back home and was very excited to see all his toys again.  All in all, a great trip spent renewing friendships.  Thank you all for the hospitality.  Cannot wait to go back!!  Pictures and video will be coming soon.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Music time and movies

Cheer, cheer for old Notre Dame!  Go Irish!!







Sitting down to watch some T*om and J*erry this morning...


...after getting dressed, he just couldn't sit still, but he DID keep his eyes on the screen!  
My little monkey.




He won't sit still for cartoons, but when we were flipping through channels on TV and came across a little boy with a red balloon on a show that had barely any talking and, when it did, was in some language other than English, the. child. was. riveted.  He just sat there, mesmerized by this balloon that followed the little boy.  Even when Chris and I got up, he stayed right there on the couch, cocooned by pillows...I wish I would have gotten a picture to show you just how enraptured he was.  We have no clue what this show was, but maybe I should look into it??

On a different, one of our friends is going to be leaving for Korea on Saturday to bring their son home and we are soooo excited for them.  They have been waiting 11 months to bring their baby home and it is finally time for them to get their child in their arms forever!  It brings back so many memories for us when we went through the same thing 9 months ago.  These friends are taking over a picture frame with a picture of little J in it, as well as a letter, to J's foster family for us.  We hope they have a safe, fun trip filled with wonderful memories!!